By Jenni B | Published on Feb 12, 2018
Before you join the Sugar Bowl, you must first understand the elements of a Sugar Relationship. Unlike traditional relationships, the Sugar Bowl is like a whole new dating game. What is so enticing about it is that we have the power to create the benefits for ourselves. We get to build an arrangement on our terms.
As attractive as it sounds, nothing comes easy. Just like snowflakes, each arrangement is unique. The uniqueness of an arrangement is defined by individual needs and wants. When two people enter an arrangement, attraction and compatibility should be the first things you consider. The end goal is to meet someone who can enhance your life in the best ways possible.
Rules you need to know
1. Deciding whether to pursue an arrangement with the right person will take you a few dates. Don’t give up just because it didn’t hit it off the first time. Go on more dates, seek for better potentials until you find someone that you really comfortable with. Money and sex should not be on the table the first date is all about getting to know each other. It is okay to receive gifts, but don’t expect.
2. Sugar dating is a lifestyle, not a job. It is not always a sexual exchange or a monetary transaction exchange. Most of the people are looking for companionship or mentorship. Creating a mutually beneficial relationship means each other’s needs are met and these could be professional advices, career opportunities or guidance in life. The point of an arrangement is to enhance one another’s lives, whether be it through finances or life experiences.
3. Sex is not an obligation in an arrangement. In Sugar dating, sex is never a requirement. Until after establishing a real connection with someone, having sex or not is entirely up to you. If you ever decide to get intimate with your partner, it should happen out of desire, not obligation. There should always be a mutual understanding that sex should not be exchanged with monetary transaction.
4. Don’t misrepresent your expectations. Sugar dating is just like regular dating, but there’s way more transparency to it. You can tell your partner what you want, they can tell you what they need and vice versa. Don’t hold back when you are negotiating and don’t compromise your values. Stick with your decision and don’t change the terms of your agreement midway.
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