By Mademoiselle C | Published on Jun 19, 2016
Whether if it’s the fear of commitment caused by rejection and heartbreaks from the past or having money and daddy issues (thanks, dad), we all chose the sugar life for a reason – to be pampered and appreciated.
Before we start, know this, to fully maximise your potential as a SugarBaby, you need to first eliminate the negative energy your past have caused you and mute yourself from the all the judgmental bigots who think its okay to tell you what to do with your life.
Give yourself a pat on the shoulder and be proud of yourself for being courageous for finally stepping out of your comfort zone and for not settling for less than you deserve until you’ve truly evolved and elevated.
With theSugarBook.com meeting a potential SugarDaddy isn’t hard, the real deal is to impress him and make him stay.
Charming, mysterious and dominant, he’s definitely the whole package. Well, except for one thing… you’re not sure if he’s in it for the long run. Trust me, we’ve all been there. It’s all fun and games until you need a toilet break after downing 6 glasses of champagne and when you look in the mirror to stare at your drunk self, anxiety starts to kick in, your insecurities begin to haunt you and you start to question yourself, “WHAT IF HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO ME?”
Fear no more, here are 6 exclusive tips given by real-life experienced SugarBabies on how to seduce and keep your SugarDaddy interested:
Looking your best is not enough.
Well, good news for you, looks isn’t everything.
Do whatever’s necessary to be the hottest version of yourself whether if it’s going to the gym, perfecting your makeup routine, going on a healthy diet, investing in Botox, changing your entire wardrobe, etc. But know this, although being pretty is important and it may help you get away with a lot of things, it is not enough to keep a SugarDaddy.
SugarDaddies are visual and appearance does matter to them, but what matters most are the aura that radiates within you and the way you carry out yourself to not just look hot but to also be a confident irresistible seductress.
To be irresistible, you need to work on your confidence and have a positive mindset. Let go of all the negativity and the self-hate of thinking that you’re not pretty enough, you don’t need to be the most attractive woman in the world to keep a SugarDaddy, and in fact, even if you are and there’s nothing else left for you to offer, it is still not enough to keep him.
Here’s the deal, seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty. It’s about highlighting your best qualities that lies within you. Instead of competing against other women with the way you look, which is basically a waste of time, stop worrying and focus your energy on striving for self-improvement.
Do whatever’s necessary to be the best version of yourself and always remember, you don’t need the approval of others to have a sense of self-worth. No one is you and that’s your power.
Master the art of not caring.
When meeting your potential SugarDaddy, live in the moment, enjoy every second of bonding with him and stop worrying about whether if he’s gonna call the next day or how things will work out in the future.
The more emotionally attached you are to him, the more power he has over you. It’s human nature that we always want things we cannot have.
Once you have the I Don’t Give a F*ck mentality instilled in you and all you care about is having fun living the glam life, you’ll automatically appear to be more hard to get and that’s when you know you’re in control. SugarDaddies will instantly be seduced by your effortless charm and confidence and they’ll be willing to do anything for you just to get your attention.
Let’s be real, you need to always be prepared that you’re not the only SugarBaby your SugarDaddy has and you have to (or at least pretend to) be okay with that because the more desperate you look, the less charming you’ll be and there’ll be higher chances of you losing him.
A jealous woman is never attractive, so save the petty “what are we” or “who is she” questions and never put your SugarDaddy in such an awkward and uncomfortable situation where he has to put up with your “crazy-girlfriend” attitude.
What a SugarDaddy really want is to have a strong and confident drama-free SugarBaby who knows her place and will not be affected or threatened by the existence of other SugarBabies because she knows that they’ve got nothing on her.
Understand this, the whole point of being in a sugar relationship is not to commit or tie down each other, its about mutually benefitting each other. And if the terms are sweet, why hurt yourself, honey?
Never put all your eggs in one basket.
Unless both you and your SugarDaddy have agreed to be in an exclusive and committed sugar relationship, it is always in your best interest to keep your options open and never invest all your time and energy on ONE SugarDaddy.
Putting all your eggs in one basket screams for disaster, you won’t be able to have a backup plan and you’ll end up with nothing one day if shit happens or your SugarDaddy starts to ignore you.
If you have a few options to choose from, not only will you get more sugar treatment from each one of your SugarDaddies, you’ll appear to be more attractive as well.
Men, in general, are competitive and they love to win and sometimes a little jealousy never hurt nobody. By letting the SugarDaddies know that you’re wanted by many, it automatically increases your value and they’ll do whatever it takes to eliminate the other competitors just to fight for your attention. Again, you call the shots.
As the saying goes, “absence makes the heart grows fonder”, never appear to be too available or you’ll lose your charm.
Sometimes, it’s okay to distant yourself with your SugarDaddies, your absence will make them miss you, make them fantasize about you, make them wonder if you’re with another SugarDaddy and these thoughts will definitely drive them crazy.
The best part is, when you reunite with them, not only will they be seduced by your beauty, they’ll appreciate you even more for feeding their ego and making them feel exclusive as if like they might stand a chance to own you completely one day. This power that you have over the SugarDaddies will make them fall head over heels for you and they will definitely come back for more.