By Mademoiselle C | Published on Oct 05, 2017
To give is to receive, if you will. Every penis is different. Every mouth is different. Therefore each and every blowjob is a different experience. Giving oral sex could be quite an intimidating, especially the moment before you that D in your mouth. There’s no such thing as the perfect blowjob. But don’t worry, it will get better in time and if it doesn’t, just stop giving blowjobs. Men will live. The most important thing you should know is that the moment you put his junk in your mouth, he’s already enjoying himself.
When it comes to blowjobs, different people like different things. If you want to make his time beneath the sheets the best its ever been, here are some things he wants you to know:
Make eye contact
Here’s a secret: Enthusiasm is more than technique. It’s not just about getting the job done. Men actually care about more than just their dick getting wet. If you’re going to do it, do it with passion and enjoy it. While you’re going down on your partner, try to make more eye contact and make him feel the connection. The more he feels that you enjoy giving the oral, the more he enjoys it. Though its oral sex, its about having fun together, not one person having more fun than the other.
No teeth, like, ever.
He has a lot of faith in you, that said, keep your teeth out of the way. This sexual performance is based on a whole lot of trust. If you’re an amateur, go slow. Don’t try to impress him and end up hurting him instead leaving him sterile for the rest of his life. Its not a competition. It is a very vulnerable time for a man and his junk, its basically a trust fall for his penis.
Don’t forget about the balls
Although the tip of the dick is the epicenter of the pleasure zone, his balls and the top 1/3 of the leg is the special place. When you’re going down on him, you can’t just stick to one technique. Combine licking and sucking while you caress his balls. Gently tickle his balls with your finger tips and he shall be aroused. There should be a good ration between your hand and mouth work. This is a great trick to pleasure his entire shaft without choking yourself to death. It also makes him hit the big O easier and it will half your job.
It is OKAY if he doesn’t want to make out right after
Come on. Put yourself in his shoes. Would you want to kiss him after he eats you out? Exactly. Not many people love the idea of tasting their own bodily fluid on your lips.. If he’s uncomfortable with kissing you directly afterwards, don’t take it personal.
If you’re not feeling it, he doesn’t want it either
Don’t force yourself. If you’re not in the mood for it, don’t force yourself to offer him one.If you have doubts about giving blowjobs, you’re not alone! Many women out there don’t enjoy giving them. And that doesn’t mean they’re prudes. You should never feel like you’re obligated to give oral sex. He wouldn’t enjoy it if you’re clearly not enthusiastic about it. NO one likes to be humoured.
Seriously. Its just a blowjob. Its not a tug of war, calm down. He should be happy that your face is up all over his groin area doing nice things to his penis. Don’t get too tensed up because you’re worried that your partner isn’t enjoying it. As the saying goes, a shitty blowjob is better than no blowjob.
So, are you ready to give a fantastic head? 😉