By | Published on Oct 31, 2016
When you decide to get into the Sugar Bowl world, one of the first things you have to consider is what you want in terms of allowance. When you meet a potential Sugar Daddy, what they want to know during the initial meeting is what are your allowance expectations. Therefore, to help you be ready for your first meet and greet, today I am covering six tips for setting your allowance expectations so you can be prepared.
1. Practice Building Up Your Confidence
Even though your potential “Daddy” is already prepared to discuss allowance, it doesn’t mean that it is going to be easy for you to ask for money. In fact, it can be a little intimidating. Therefore, before going to your meet and greet practice responding to the allowance question for about twenty minutes so you don’t come off as someone who doesn’t know what they want or “green” to the Sugar Bowl lifestyle.
2. Consider Your Options
Would you prefer to receive allowance on a weekly, bi weekly, or monthly basis? This is an important questionas you need to have answers for it depending on the type of “Daddy” you are dealing with. Additionally, you have to figure out how you want to be paid. For example, do you want a bank transfer, PayPal, gift card, or cold hard cash? Keep in mind, there is no right or wrong answer for any of these questions!
3. What is His Range?
This is another key aspect to keep in mind when setting your allowance expectations. Depending on where you met your potential “Daddy”, you may already know how much he hopes to spend and what he can afford. However, sometimes you may have to do some research because potential daddies can make anywhere from $60,00 to more than $200,000 a year.
4. Ask Questions
If you don’t feel 100% comfortable setting a price yourself, it’s okay to ask your potential Sugar Daddy what his price is. This is a great way to find out who the low ballers are and avoid wasting each other’s time if he is nowhere near the range that you were hoping for. Additionally, sometimes you may luck up and find that he is willing to pay you more for your time than you ever imagined.
5. Other Perks Included
Is your Sugar Daddy going to be paying your bills, purchasing you a car or house, or spending loads of money on you in other ways? If so, this should play a role in how you decide how much actual money they should be providing you for allowance. Before coming up with a hard number, take some time to reflect how much they will be helping you in other ways and compare it to how much you are putting into actually earning the perks and the allowance.
6. It’s Okay to Negotiate
Some Sugar Babies may tell you that you should have a set price and not budge for anyone. However, I’m here to tell you don’t be so quick to say “next”. As mentioned in Tip (5), there are more perks of being a Sugar Baby than just the allowance. You have to factor in mentoring, trips, shopping, and surprises. If your Sugar Daddy is only a couple of hundred outside of the number you had in mind, but is picking up the slack with perks, it’s okay to lower the amount of allowance you expect each month.
Making the decision to join the Sugar Bowl can be exciting and nerve wrecking at the same time. Don’t worry because it takes time to get comfortable asking someone for money and coming up with a good allowance amount. Hopefully these tips shared today can help you build up your confidence and come to a decision about your allowance expectations!