By Chloe | Published on Sep 10, 2017
I always date men between 10-20 years of my age and I would do it again given any chance. Its honestly better than any of my previous relationships with men my age that I’ve experienced. Let’s just say.. I have a fantasy for older men.
He was an extremely well-educated multilingual cardiologist with encyclopedic knowledge of wine and a passion for classic art. Excellent conversationalist. What began as a NSA thing turned into a romantic relationship. That relationship went on for nearly two years with some of the hottest sex I’ve ever experienced, but I never let myself get too emotionally attached, because I knew it was just a matter of time until he gets bored of me. Which he did. Nonetheless, I never regretted the relationship. Based on my personal experience, here are 5 reasons why you should date older men:
Age is really just a number
“The heart wants what the heart wants” is a cliché that couldn’t be more accurate. We can’t control whom we fall in love with. Eventhough this guy and I was 20 years apart, it wasn’t a big, earth-shattering deal to us. As long as you have things in common, similar interests and you both want the same things in the relationship, you have already settled half the battle. Don’t close yourself off based age and think its wrong to develop feelings for someone outside of our age brackets.
He’s financially stable and knows where he’s going in life
Besides love, I felt safe, secure and comfortable. When I dated guys my age, I always had to pay for our meals, I never got to buy the things I liked and I never had any savings. Ever since I dated older men, I don’t even need to carry my purse around with me. At this point in his life, he is ambitious and well established. Its more comforting to be in a relationship with someone who is financially secure. Older men know a thing or two about saving money for the future, investing and balancing their checkbook. I like that security and the fact that being with him, money isn’t an issue.
He got over being jealous ages ago
When it comes to dating, I look up to men who are independent and confident. I appreciate not having to deal with jealousy in a relationship. Its exhausting to always have to fight and make up endlessly. Sure, you can be jealous, but not all the time. I admire men who are not easily threatened by any guy who hits on me and has enough amount of trust in me. Being in a relationship with an older man means being honest about how you feel and what you want. They don’t like beating around the bush and play mind games with you.
There’s (almost)nothing he doesn’t know
Age comes with wisdom and older men are often Mr. Know-It-All. He’s definitely more well-read than any guy in their 20s’ who only spend their time playing video games and asking for nudes. Obviously no one has it all figured out, I take advantage of the opportunity to gain knowledge from someone who has experienced so many things that I have yet to experience. I want to climb up that career ladder and I want a man that match that, which often is not a 24 year old guy.
You can always depend on him
He may not be your Daddy, but he’s definitely Sugar Daddy material. It’s an amazing feeling to know that this older man is someone you can rely on. Whenever you have problems, he’s all ears for you and gives you wise advices. He motivates you and encourages you to be better. The most important thing is, he provides for you and all you need to do is express gratitude.
Just like with all great things in life, men get better in time. Though I’m not an expert in relationships by any means, ultimately, leave all judgment behind when you find someone truly special. Life is short. Fuck the rest.